Tuesday, October 11, 2011

30 Habits & Beliefs that Hurt Your Body Image



  • Not listening to your body’s needs, such as skipping meals when you’re hungry or exercising hard when you’re tired. 
  • Hyperfocusing on supposed physical “flaws.” 
  • Making numbers like weight and clothing size your body image barometers. 
  • Letting women’s magazines determine your beauty rules. 
  • Participating in physical activities that you can’t stand. (Remember movement is joyful! You just have to pick the activities you like.) 
  • Confusing tension, unhappiness, anxiety and anger with feeling “fat” and thinking thinness is the answer. 
  • Thinking thinness will garner love and attention that you actually want. 
  • Believing body weight reveals well-being and health. 
  • Staying in because you don’t think you look “good enough.” 
  • Comparing your inside to others’ outsides. 
  • Ignoring your emotions, and letting stress stockpile. 
  • Believing binge eating can be fixed with a diet or weight loss program. 
  • Not reaching out to others when you’re upset or clearly need support. 
  • Thinking a positive body image means loving your body all the time. Even body image bloggers get down on ourselves. Avoid making your positive body image another trap for perfectionistic tendencies. 
  • Not turning to healthy strategies to soothe your stress or manage your emotions. 
  • Forgetting that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, weights and colors. 
  • Skimping on sleep. 
  • Bonding with girlfriends over how much bigger your butt is. 
  • Always eating on the go. 
  • Blaming your body or your wilting willpower for not looking a certain way. 
  • Keeping clothes that don’t fit. 
  • Wearing clothes that don’t fit or make you feel unhappy. 
  • Viewing food restriction as a virtue. 
  • Waiting to accomplish certain goals until you lose weight (and presumably become worthy). 
  • Similarly, waiting to treat your body well until you lose weight. 
  • Criticizing another person’s appearance, weight or shape. 
  • Eating what you don’t want because it has fewer calories. 
  • Weighing yourself daily or weekly.
  • Dieting.  
  • Thinking your voice doesn’t deserve to be heard. 
I think I need to read this everyday :-)

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