- Not listening to your body’s needs, such as skipping meals when you’re hungry or exercising hard when you’re tired.
- Hyperfocusing on supposed physical “flaws.”
- Making numbers like weight and clothing size your body image barometers.
- Letting women’s magazines determine your beauty rules.
- Participating in physical activities that you can’t stand. (Remember movement is joyful! You just have to pick the activities you like.)
- Confusing tension, unhappiness, anxiety and anger with feeling “fat” and thinking thinness is the answer.
- Thinking thinness will garner love and attention that you actually want.
- Believing body weight reveals well-being and health.
- Staying in because you don’t think you look “good enough.”
- Comparing your inside to others’ outsides.
- Ignoring your emotions, and letting stress stockpile.
- Believing binge eating can be fixed with a diet or weight loss program.
- Not reaching out to others when you’re upset or clearly need support.
- Thinking a positive body image means loving your body all the time. Even body image bloggers get down on ourselves. Avoid making your positive body image another trap for perfectionistic tendencies.
- Not turning to healthy strategies to soothe your stress or manage your emotions.
- Forgetting that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, weights and colors.
- Skimping on sleep.
- Bonding with girlfriends over how much bigger your butt is.
- Always eating on the go.
- Blaming your body or your wilting willpower for not looking a certain way.
- Keeping clothes that don’t fit.
- Wearing clothes that don’t fit or make you feel unhappy.
- Viewing food restriction as a virtue.
- Waiting to accomplish certain goals until you lose weight (and presumably become worthy).
- Similarly, waiting to treat your body well until you lose weight.
- Criticizing another person’s appearance, weight or shape.
- Eating what you don’t want because it has fewer calories.
- Weighing yourself daily or weekly.
- Dieting.
- Thinking your voice doesn’t deserve to be heard.
I think I need to read this everyday :-)
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